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Thanks for the Nomination of Liebster Award..!

I would like to appreciate Bunmi’s Crib for nominating me for the Liebster Award, I must say her blog is filled with amazing posts which you will enjoy.

Here are the rules of the beautiful award:

    • Thank the blogger who nominated you, and give a link to the blog.
    • Answer the 11 questions given to you.
    • Share 11 facts about yourself.
    • Nominate between 5-11 other bloggers.
    • Ask your nominees 11 questions.
    • Notify your nominees once you’ve uploaded your post

Answers to Bunmi’s Crib’s questions:

  • What do you do when you’re frustrated?

Mostly I overthink the matter for couple of times and at last when my brain gets real foggy then just breath in and breath out.

  • What is your most challenging moment?

Doing burpee.. 🥵

  • If have to choose another planet, which will you prefer?

Mars maybe.

  • What’s your best fashion label?

Whatever suits me the most.

  • Which do you prefer: Thriller, romance or adventure movies?

Definitely Thriller with a little bit of Adventure.

  • Which do you prefer calling or texting?

I prefer texting more.

  • If you have the opportunity of going back in time, what would you change about your past?

Changing the university.

  • What bad habit are you desperate to change?

Sugar addiction.

  • What is friendship to you?

Friendship is much stronger bond from any known relationship. We can make mistakes without fear of judgment from the friend and have the ability to be oneself, express any feelings and mainly mutual understanding and compassion.

  • Politician or activist which would you rather become?

Politician.

  • What’s the best book you will like to read again?

Himu Somogro by Humayun Ahmed.

11 facts about Myself:

  1. I love sleeping so much like it’s almost my hobby.
  2. I hate KFC or Noodles or any greasy food & Dairy milk & Kitkat & Burger.
  3. My one true love is pizza.
  4. Cheesecake, Brownie, Choco Cake, Cookies, Donuts, Ice-Cream 🤩 Always in love with them.
  5. Love to listen my repeated songs over & over again.
  6. I know cooking is an art but I don’t wanna be that artist.
  7. Mascara, eyeliner & lipstick is my makeup.
  8. I learned English by watching a lot of English movies & I’m actually good at English.
  9. I almost never dream but whenever I have; I remember all of them.
  10. I’m very bad at making friends because of my straight-forward talk.
  11. If my hair feels fine then I know for sure that my day is gonna be fine too.

Here are my nominees:

Sajid Bhagat
mybookofhonour
A Beating Hearts Reflection
Frog In The Well
Shivam Tiwari
Ket
Interesting Reads
Just Being Me

Questions to my nominees:

  1. What are your 3 Favorite Movies?
  2. What accomplishment are you most proud of?
  3. What’s your favorite day of the week and why?
  4. What was the last gift you gave someone?
  5. Who’s your celebrity crush?
  6. When you’re having a bad day, what do you do to make yourself feel better?
  7. What’s one thing you own that you should probably get rid of, but just can’t?
  8. What’s the last compliment you got?
  9. Do you usually remember your dreams in the morning?
  10. What is one food that you used to hate but now you love?
  11. Do you still watch cartoons?
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Feeling Stuck!! – Lesson

I don’t know why but for past 4 days I’ve been feeling like I am stuck at just one point and my life is not going anywhere at all and I can’t move past this feeling. Every time I try to push away these sad feeling I feel like I can’t actually do anything and there’s a lot of negativity in my mind and I can’t even find any positive things to be happy about…And these feelings are like my mind is saying what am I talking about!! Funny thing is I don’t even know what’s that point I am being stuck at, I mean literally!!! So I’ve searching for some lessons about feeling stuck and through those lesson I am gonna dig into my emotion…

Lesson 1:

Fear is the glue that keeps you stuck. Faith is the solvent that sets you free.
― Shannon L. Alder

(Yes I can relate to this of course!! I think this is the main reason of feeling stuck because I fear about my success)

Lesson 2:

But there was a difference between being stuck and choosing to stay. Between being found and finding yourself.
― Martina Boone, Compulsion

(True…we always want someone else to find out about our problem and want them to motivate us instead of just digging into yourself to find out about own-self)

Lesson 3:

I will breathe. I will think of solutions. I will not let my worry to control me. I will not let my stress break me. I will simply breathe. And it will be okay. Because I don’t quit.
– Shayne McClendon

(So may be sometimes this whole speech works like a charm because I am not a quitter but sometimes its just feels like let it go right? like you know the solution and still you are falling into the problem)

Lesson 4:

Someday, everything will make perfect sense. So for now, laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears, and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason.

(Totally agree with it)

Lesson 5:

Feeling unsure and lost is part of your path. Don’t avoid it. See what those feelings are showing you and use it.
– Louis C K

(Yes I am facing my problem and trying to see what actually happened)

And lastly…what I am actually feeling:

I felt I was drowning in my negativity. There was no hope of room for patience and no means of escape, no way to either repent or rebel I felt I could not undo the lock.
― Jalaluddin Rumi

(I mean I am totally this right now)
So, what do you think? did u ever feel stuck at one point and don’t even know why then may be you should also start digging into your emotion pole.

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Happy in Relationship-Lessons

Although there’s always some struggle for being in a relation you can always find happiness by taking a moment and just thinking about some happy memories…

These are some lessons you can remember about the best times of your togetherness…

1.
There are lots of people who can call you by your name but there is only one person who can make it sound so special.😊
– Kim Jarabelo

2.
Each contact with a human being is so rare, so precious, one should preserve it.
– Anais Nin

3.
Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.
– William James

4.
A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.
– Leo F. Buscaglia

5.
When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.
– Donald Miller

6.
The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.
– Carl Jung

7.
You don’t develop courage by being happy in your relationship everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity.
– Epicurus

8.
Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust and hostility to evaporate.
– Albert Schweitzer

9.
Assumptions are the termites of relationships.
– Henry Winkler

10.
We can improve our relationships with others by leaps and bounds if we become encouraging instead of critics.
– Joyce Meyer

11.
The first to apologize is the bravest.
The first to forgive is the strongest.
The first to forget is the happiest.

12.
I am a better person because of you. You help me be the best person that I can be and you always encourage me to reach my full potential.

13.
The secret of being happy is accepting where you are in life and making the most out of everyday.

14.
I used to think I knew exactly what I wanted in the perfect soulmate. I was wrong, because you are even better than what I ever imagined.

15.
The world can be a tough and confusing place, but I am glad that you are here with me to experience it.

16.
Sometimes we can disagree, but at the same time there is something perfect about you and me.

17.
Maybe it’s not about the happy ending. Maybe it’s about the story.

18.
The best feeling is when you look at him & he is already staring.

19.
Let go of your attachment to being right and suddenly your mind is more open.

20.
One day I caught myself smiling for no reason, then I realize I was thinking of you.

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Fun Life Lessons

Don’t take life too seriously…laugh everyday-life is amazing.

1.
Accept who you are, unless you are a serial killer.🤣-Ellen DeGeneres
2.
Be stupid, be dumb, be funny, if that’s who you are. Don’t try to be someone that society wants you to be; that’s stupid. So be yourself. -Christina Grimmie
3.
When life gives you lemons, squirt someone in the eye. -Cathy Guisewite
4.
Some people never go crazy. What truly horrible lives they must lead. -Charles Bukowski
5.
If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. Then quit. No use being a damn fool about it. -W C Fields
6.
Life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans. -John Lennon
7.
Life is short, smile; when you still have teeth.
8.
You never know what you have until you clean your room.
9.
In bed, it’s 6:00 am. You close your eyes for 1 minute, it’s 7:45.
At work, it’s 1:30 pm. You close your eyes for 5 minutes, it’s 1:31.

10.
A giraffe’s coffee would be cold by the time it reached the bottom of its throat, Ever think about that? NO. you only think about yourself.
11.
Practice makes perfect but then nobody is perfect so what’s the point of practicing?
12.
Doesn’t expecting the unexpected make the unexpected expected?
13.
Don’t know where your kids are in the house? Turn off the internet and they’ll show up quickly.
14.
Chocolate comes from coco which is a tree, that makes it a plant. So, chocolate is salad.
15.
If we’re not meant to have midnight snacks, why is there a light in the fridge?

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Lessons About Tension

We all are tensed all the time no matter what’s the reason and we are always anxious about life or what’s gonna happen…Like my mother says all the time, “I don’t ask any tension to come, it comes to me unwanted”
So, yeah I am not gonna lie I also worry a lot and sometimes I’ve got no idea why I am so anxious about something that’s not even gonna happen. We all like that..and we all want to be a tension free person. But what we forget is we can live our full lives with full of tensions if we just accept it. I know it’s not possible to reduce tension immediately but we can gradually teach ourselves this lessons through our tensions…

Lesson 1:
The tension between what is, and what we dream of, is important. Not to discount what we have, but to hold onto that middle ground, because it’s in there that the magic happens.
— Susan Branch(American author)

Lesson 2:
Body tension will always be present if our good feeling is just ordinary, self-centered happiness. Joy has no tension in it, because joy accepts whatever is as it is.
— Joko Beck(American Zen teacher)

Lesson 3:
The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.
— Sydney J. Harris(American journalist)

Lesson 4:
Life is a series of pulls back and forth… A tension of opposites, like a pull on a rubber band. Most of us live somewhere in the middle. A wrestling match…Which side win? Love wins. Love always wins.
— Mitch Albom(American author)

Lesson 5:
To think that I know what’s best for anyone else is to be out of my business. Even in the name of love, it is pure arrogance, and the result is tension, anxiety, and fear. Do I know what’s right for me? That is my only business. Let me work with that before I try to solve problems for you.
— Byron Katie(American speaker)

Lesson 6:
Some tension is necessary for the soul to grow, and we can put that tension to good use. We can look for every opportunity to give and receive love, to appreciate nature, to heal our wounds and the wounds of others, to forgive, and to serve.
— Joan Z. Borysenko(Leading experts on stress, spirituality, and the mind/body )

More great lessons to learn…
1. When you have no intention then you no tension! Be flexible.
2. If a problem can be solved, no need to worry about it. If a problem can’t be solved what is the use of worrying?
3. Worries and tensions are like birds, we can’t stop them from flying near us, but we can certainly stop them from making a nest in our mind.
4. Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are.
5. A day of worry is more exhausting than a week of work.
6. The tension you feel from one person may be the tension you are causing for another.
7. Worrying doesn’t take away tomorrow’s troubles, it takes away today’s peace.
8. A life lived in worry, tension and fear is a life half lived…
9. Tension is the great integrity.
10. Failures do what is tension relieving, while winners do what is goal achieving.